life is only as good as you make it

I wish we could be young kids again, their outlook on life is one to be marveled at. Getting older is when everyone feels sorry for themselves. The most inspiring place is the pediatric oncology department, seriously these kids have the best attitudes, they do NOT feel sorry for themselves, and here they are with the most unlucky situation in life, it is not fair and they dont hate the world for it (for the most part). Getting older we complain too much about useless things, life is only as good as you make it, if youre gonna feel sorry for yourself and hate your life then yes your life will suck bc you dont want to be in it, and life is the one thing that you have to put all your energy into doing, you have to go head first into situations in order to really LIVE, that is what life is about, really living. Even when things in your life seem to not be fair, its really your attitude that gets you through it, only if you want it to. So want it to, because its not worth being miserable everyday. So you dont have a boyfriend or someone who loves you... you have to love yourself first, if you can stand being alone with yourself then you can stand to be with someone else to, your heart has to be in it for the first reasons, and there are more ppl than you know who depend on you and who think youre amazing and who love you, actually love you for all the right reasons. The right boy will come, someone who loves everything about you and cant get enough, the way everyone deserves to be loved. It will happen, just dont ever give up, if you put 100% in everything you do, you will eventually get 100% back, just stick through it.